It's Been a While...

Actually, it's been over a year. Pathetic! I hate to say it, but the blog kind of got kicked to the back when James came along. I think I've been in survival mode for a year now. Hopefully we'll get past that soon. I'm not going to try to catch up on the whole year, but just post a few pictures from a fishing trip with Grandma & Grandpa Daniels a few weeks ago when they came to Tennessee. 

We probably won't get a better family picture for Christmas cards...so, Merry Christmas!

Mister Adam is now 7, crazy kid, and growing up too fast. He's waiting for more teeth to grow to fill in his smile. He loves yellow and gold, pizza, and playing Legos. 

Mister Michael is 5, cannot wait to start kindergarten (he asks almost daily how many days left until he starts school and gets to ride the bus with Adam), and is fairly mellow. He LOVES the movie Planes, the color red, and Legos. 

Oh the James Boy. He's such a sweetheart! He's 13 months now, has I can't remember how many teeth, big brown eyes, and a smile to melt a mommy heart. He also is a chunk. Like, chunky-chunk. He went from 50% to 70% for weight. He weighed 23.5 lbs at his 1 year check-up. Lillian, for reference, weighs 25 lbs. He scoots, rather than crawls, only pushing with his right foot and scooting his left leg. It makes for a filthy left shin and toes. He also has very thick feet...I can't find shoes that fit his chubby feet. We call him "Chubs" and we love him to pieces!!

And that Lulu girl. We love her. Her hair has filled in now and when she's feelin' it, she lets me braid it or pull it into pig tails. I usually have to bribe her with getting to comb Mommy's hair if she lets me comb the tangles out of her hair. It's a win-win. She loves babies and dolls and mud and her brothers. She's sweet and compassionate and loves sweets (like all my kids honestly). She has beautiful blue eyes and an infectious laugh I wish I could bottle up and store for when she's older. 

We just had a humungo trip to Utah (for nearly 3 weeks!) and I honestly do hope to post pictures from the trip soon. I'm still trying to unwind from the stress of traveling and cope with having my best friend (besides Brian), move to the other side of the world. I can't think about her and her sweet family without tearing up. It's going to be a long two years! Maybe Brian and I will have to spend our 10 yr anniversary trip going to Korea, just so we can see them and celebrate together. Life is an adventure. What more can I say? Other than, I'm happy to be on it. 

Welcome Baby James!

Introducing the newest member of our family: James Orval Daniels

It was fun waiting to find out the gender until baby decided to make his appearance. All throughout the labor we all (nurses and doc) were speculating what the gender would be. Everyone came to the conclusion it was a little boy based on the trouble he was giving us. But he came out healthy and beautiful! Just a few pushes and this sweet little boy was out (thank heavens!).

Our newest family picture! I'm so grateful for our friends, the Allens, for watching our kids for us while we were at the hospital and then bringing the kids to come see their new brother (and take pictures!). I'm so grateful for the Gospel and the church that teaches us how and allows us opportunities to serve.

Brian brought the kids for a visit and they all loved climbing up on the bed and watching Curious George (after they each had a turn holding James, of course).

 My little Michael meeting James for the first time. He was so excited it was a boy!

While Lillian didn't really want me when she first came to see us at the hospital, as soon as baby James came in, all she wanted was the baby (forget Mom!). She loved holding him!

Adam was hoping for a girl, but he is thrilled to have James in our family. It is so sweet to see him hold James and love him and ask all sorts of questions about him. Before James was born Adam asked what the baby would see in the birth canal, how well can he see, what's it like inside, etc. We got out my child development text book and looked at pictures and had a few good talks to try and answer his many many questions. 

A good size healthy baby boy...we're so grateful!

Once the shock of being outside Mommy subsided, James was content to look around and take in his surroundings. He has some dark hair (darker than the other kids) and dark eyes. They may just go brown.

Just a little explanation on James' middle name. Orval is the name of my great-grandfather (my dad's paternal grandfather). Orval holds a very special place in our family. We have lots of great stories about Orval. He serves as the patriarch of our family and even though he passed away long ago, he still watches over and protects our family. We felt that James should have the namesake of such a wonderful man. And James, well James is just awesome! James the apostle is a wonderful example for all of us and hopefully for our sweet new baby. 

We miss you all and pray that you and your families are well. We are so grateful for eternal families and grateful that little James is a part of ours. We're glad you are each part of our family too!

I Must...

...brag on Brian. So, Brian has been switched to a rotating shift schedule for work and started that about 5 weeks ago. Let's just say, it's no one in our family's favorite schedule. We weekly switches between 12 hour night shifts and day shifts and to say the least it's hard on one's body. We definitely have empathy for those who do or have ever worked this schedule! One nice thing is that he does have 7 days off each month (7 days in a row) to catch up on everything he can't get done when he's working. Brian is such a champ for working these shifts and he never complains.

The last few days, "elephantitis" has set in on my pregnant body. My feet have swollen to the point that it's painful to walk and it feels like I constantly have things between my toes (it drives me nuts!). We only have 3.5 weeks left and I'm grateful! Brian is working days this week and I had a doctor appointment this morning. The kids went to a friend's house while I saw the doc. Walking out of my appointment, feeling huge, uncomfortable, and unattractive Brian popped out of the trees with a bouquet of flowers. I am one lucky girl! I only got to see him for a few minutes since he had to run back to work, but in those few minutes I was reminded how much I'm loved, valued, and appreciated. He's such an awesome husband! Plus, he cooks whenever he's home and helps out with housework on top of helping tons with the kiddos.

A couple of weeks ago (on one of Brian's days off) we went to the park and had a cook out so I could search out some good spots to take family pictures for some friends in the ward. The kids were fairly obliging (minus Lillian, she wasn't thrilled) models.

 The kids were also helpful getting a picture of this quilt I finally finished for Blake, their newest cousin. I wish I was able to make one for each new baby that comes along, but sadly sometimes that doesn't happen. I haven't even made our new baby a quilt yet. I have some adorable fabric picked out if it's a boy! We're hoping this baby will come on it's own relatively on time. Doc has told me to rest more and let the kids get things themselves. No strict bed rest orders yet. I'm so grateful for Brian and his willingness to help so much. He's the best "help-meet" I could ever ask for.

Happy Easter!

Time seems to just keep flying right past us!

The spent the other day working in the front yard and the kids were just plain old silly. We thought we'd share some silliness...

Lillian had lots of fun smelling the tulips that came up this year.

Adam is very excited to show that he lost one of his top teeth (he has now lost two front teeth, I just need to take a new picture).

Easter morning found us running a tad late and scampering to take a picture before church. We didn't have time to grab the tripod, thus pregnant mommy is behind the camera.

Hopefully I'll get another post in with more pictures before baby comes, but if not, we'll next have an updated family picture!

Choosing to Not Be Offended

This afternoon I had an interesting experience. Other friends and I have laughed about what some people have to said to us in reference to the number of children we have. We laugh about all the things we wish we could have said in response.

Today as I was picking up Adam from school I was carrying Lillian and holding Michael's hand. A gentleman passing by was counting my children out loud..."I see one, two...?" Since I was picking up Adam at the school, he could assume I had at least one more and as I'm now obviously pregnant, he seemed surprised. I replied, "Three and a half, actually!" (I might add that I was cheerful about it). As I was walking away he joked, "You know the cause and effect, right?"

I rather boldly replied, "Yeah, we've got that one down great, thanks!" Then I just continued to walk away as I heard him chuckle. In retrospect, maybe I should have just smiled and walked away, but the words just flew out of my mouth! As a married woman and mother of nearly four, I better know how and why I have children. Might as well let this gentleman know I enjoy my children and my husband and I purposefully have more than one. :)

As I walked up to the school a woman looked at me and apologized. I didn't understand why she was apologizing ("maybe the guy was her husband?" I thought, but nope, he wasn't). She apologized that he was so rude and said the amount of children I had was none of his business. "You could have twenty kids if you want!" No, thank you...one at a time is all I can handle. She was so offended by what he had said to me, a total stranger.

I simply told her, "It's ok. I've heard it before. They all have good intentions." I didn't realize until I was driving home that I simply chose to not be offended. The nice lady was offended in my behalf, but it probably spoiled her afternoon. I probably offended her by not being offended by the other guy! I'm glad that the gentleman seemed light-hearted about the whole thing and not derogatory. I could be stewing mad about what he said all evening, but I'm not. I just let it roll off and now I'm just grateful that I chose to not be offended.

Perhaps there will be another time when I consciously make a choice...and hopefully I won't be offended then either. It's always our choice. So choose to not be offended. It makes your day so much better and it will probably take the wind out someone's sails if they are intentionally trying to offend you.